The Asshole Survival Guide by Robert I. Sutton is a practical and insightful book that offers readers tips on how to deal with people who treat them like dirt. The book is divided into ten chapters, each focusing on a different aspect of dealing with assholes. From identifying assholes to managing their behavior, this book provides readers with the tools they need to survive and thrive in a world filled with difficult people.
Chapter 1: Introduction
In the first chapter, Sutton introduces the concept of assholes and explains why they are so difficult to deal with. He defines an asshole as someone who lacks empathy, is selfish, and treats others with disrespect. Sutton argues that assholes are not just found in the workplace, but can be found in all areas of life, including politics, sports, and entertainment.
Chapter 2: Identifying Assholes
In the second chapter, Sutton provides readers with tips on how to identify assholes. He suggests looking for signs such as inconsiderate behavior, lack of empathy, and a sense of entitlement. Sutton also warns readers not to confuse assholes with people who are simply difficult or challenging to work with.
Chapter 3: The Asshole’s Advantage
In the third chapter, Sutton discusses the advantages that assholes have over others. He explains that assholes often rise to the top of organizations because they are willing to step on anyone to get ahead. Sutton also notes that assholes can be very successful in fields that reward aggression and selfishness.
Chapter 4: The Asshole Survival Guide
In the fourth chapter, Sutton provides readers with a step-by-step guide on how to deal with assholes. He suggests avoiding assholes whenever possible, confronting them directly when necessary, and using humor to defuse tense situations. Sutton also emphasizes the importance of documenting asshole behavior and seeking support from colleagues.
Chapter 5: Managing Assholes
In the fifth chapter, Sutton discusses strategies for managing assholes in the workplace. He suggests creating a culture of respect and accountability, using data to hold assholes accountable, and avoiding rewarding asshole behavior. Sutton also emphasizes the importance of mentoring and coaching assholes to help them improve their behavior.
Chapter 6: Dealing with Assholes in Your Personal Life
In the sixth chapter, Sutton provides readers with tips on how to deal with assholes in their personal lives. He suggests avoiding assholes whenever possible, confronting them directly when necessary, and using humor to defuse tense situations. Sutton also emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and seeking support from friends and family.
Chapter 7: Assholes in Politics, Sports, and Entertainment
In the seventh chapter, Sutton discusses assholes in politics, sports, and entertainment. He explains that assholes are often attracted to these fields because they provide opportunities for power and attention. Sutton also notes that assholes in these fields can have a significant impact on society.
Chapter 8: The Asshole in the Mirror
In the eighth chapter, Sutton discusses the role that assholes play in our own lives. He explains that we can become assholes ourselves if we lack empathy, are selfish, and treat others with disrespect. Sutton emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and taking responsibility for our own behavior.
Chapter 9: The Future of Assholes
In the ninth chapter, Sutton discusses the future of assholes and how we can prepare for them. He suggests creating a culture of respect and accountability, using data to hold assholes accountable, and avoiding rewarding asshole behavior. Sutton also emphasizes the importance of mentoring and coaching assholes to help them improve their behavior.
Conclusion
Overall, The Asshole Survival Guide is a valuable resource for anyone who has ever had to deal with difficult people. Sutton provides readers with practical advice on how to identify, manage, and survive assholes in all areas of life. By following Sutton’s guidance, readers can learn to navigate the world of assholes with confidence and grace.
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