Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships is a book written by Tristan Taormino, a sex educator and author. The book explores the concept of non-monogamous relationships, also known as open relationships. It provides practical advice on how to navigate the complexities of these relationships and offers insights into the benefits and challenges of this lifestyle. The book is divided into three parts, with each part focusing on a different aspect of open relationships.
In the first part of the book, Taormino provides an overview of what open relationships are and how they differ from monogamous relationships. She also addresses some of the common misconceptions about open relationships and dispels myths about jealousy and possessiveness. Taormino emphasizes the importance of communication and trust in open relationships and offers tips on how to negotiate and establish boundaries with your partner(s).
Part 2: Practical Advice
The second part of the book delves deeper into the practical aspects of open relationships. Taormino provides guidance on how to navigate the challenges of managing multiple partners, including scheduling, time management, and setting priorities. She also offers advice on how to handle jealousy and other emotions that may arise in open relationships. Taormino also discusses the importance of safer sex practices and provides information on how to stay safe and healthy in non-monogamous relationships.
Part 3: The Lifestyle
In the final part of the book, Taormino explores the broader community of open relationships and provides resources for those who are interested in exploring this lifestyle. She also offers advice on how to navigate the challenges of polyamory, swinging, and other forms of non-monogamy. Taormino emphasizes the importance of self-care and personal growth in open relationships and provides tips on how to stay emotionally healthy and fulfilled in a non-monogamous lifestyle.
Conclusion
Overall, Opening Up is a comprehensive guide to creating and sustaining open relationships. Taormino provides practical advice and insights into the benefits and challenges of non-monogamous relationships. Whether you are considering exploring open relationships or are already in one, this book is a valuable resource that provides the tools and information needed to navigate this complex and rewarding lifestyle.
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